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The Journey Back to Self

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Updated: Jun 6, 2023

The Beauty Is Found In the Becoming


The longest journey I ever decided to go on was the one that I was most unprepared for. I like most of you didn't know in what way that you were being set up, set apart and being prepared to step into the ring where you would eventually and inevitably experience greatness. Purpose is powerful, and everyone has a sad story, so don't waste time comparing your sad story or purposely fulfilling your incredible story to the next if you search long and hard enough you will always discover individuals who are either doing better or worse than you. This journey is about the fulfillment of you notice I didn't say of "self fulfillment", what makes you feel full? Have you ever asked yourself? What could I add to my life that would make me no longer feel like I required an escape from my everyday reality. What principles, what morals could i set in place so that I have enough room to be likable and safeguard my space. The part of the journey that they don't specifically inform you about are the experiences that you wont be able to anticipate except they will still present themselves in a for or fashion that place a demand on the spaces and voids that aren't always as healed as you believe them to be. And that's okay because what you have knowledge of and take ownership for can no longer affect you because once you have acknowledgement of something. it will bring you out of dark spaces and into a place of awareness and it is from that place that you can begin making decisions that will begin to bring about the change you desire to see manifested in your life. It is from those specific experiences in which you will gain the most wisdom of self and it is what you learn from them that will inhibit your growth. The longest journey is the one in which you spend both discovering, loving and becoming one with yourself.


Khaalida Mahasan The Hair Psychologist

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My path to personal development and contribution to society has been an unexpected journey. Initially, my focus on societal contribution shifted towards a deliberate pursuit of intentionality rather than mere service performance. I found myself guiding individuals entrenched in personal challenges, transcending the mere advice found in self-help literature by actively walking alongside those who've weathered similar trials. Sitting with individuals, encouraging them to immerse themselves in contemplation, and envisioning their aspirations became a pivotal part of my process. At the outset, comprehending their perspective was challenging. Nevertheless, these moments were transformative, occurring notably within the sanctuary of my salon- a space where prayers were uttered, emotions freely expressed, and personal metamorphosis unfolded. 

Within this space. I endeavored not to compete or surpass others, but to fulfill a singular prayer: to complete the journey towards a superior version of myself. I pursued this through unconventional avenues, humbling myself to seek guidance, learning from influential figures, and persisting even in solitude, all with the aim of self-improvement.

The transformation wasnt immediate, nor did it occur gradually. However, I found pride in my developmental process-learning to absorb setbacks, endure challenges, and view failure as a stepping stone towards progress. I discovered the power in redirecting negative emotions towards constructive channels, culminating in a newfound sense of control. This led to a symbiotic relationship with a higher power, allowing me to navigate life's narratives while co-authoring my destiny.

Through sacrifice, prayer and relinquishing erstwhile sources of joy, I invited divine grace- ushering genuine joy, peace and contentment into my life. My experiences, often unwanted but transformative, have become the foundation upon which I now guide others.

Self-love, an essential outcome of this journey, serves as a beacon of encouragement. I advocate unapologetically embracing one's brilliance while extending support to others. If my radiance seems to intense for some, I offer them the tools to endure or assist in elevating their own light. In essence, my story embodies the permission to love oneself and unapologetically radiate that love outwardly.

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